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[{"order":0,"details":{"name":"Matt","about":"straight / new to gay world / insecure / fleeing Poland for greener pastures","pic":{"detail":"images/profile/profile-m-001_detail.jpg","thumb":"images/profile/profile-m-001_thumbnail.jpg"}},"messages":[{"text":"Disclaimer: Matt and I met while out on the gay club scene in Copenhagen. Matt is from Poland and struggles to be out as bisexual there. When we met it was his first time going to a gay club (or doing anything gay honestly). While we were chatting he created a Grindr account for the first time. He has been learning Danish and is planning on moving to Copenhagen partially because Denmark is known for being more LGBT-friendly than Poland. The following conversation occurred on Facebook Messenger.","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/10/2018 8:26:00"},{"text":"You are now connected on Messenger.","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/10/2018 8:27:15"},{"text":"Hey matt - nice meeting you last night - how was the rest of the evening","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/10/2018 8:28:30"},{"text":"Hi :) I don't remember when have You left.. you were with us in the last bar, right?","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/10/2018 8:29:45"},{"text":"Also, do You remember names of anyone ? I wanted to add them on facebook, so I can plan to meet them again. or maybe You have already planned something ?","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/10/2018 10:58:00"},{"text":"Hey sorry I haven't replied","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:36:00"},{"text":"Was just packing and such for my flight back to the US","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:37:15"},{"text":"But now I've learned my flight is cancelled so I'm at a hotel haha","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:38:30"},{"text":"And probably won't be able to leave until Tues…","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:39:45"},{"text":"So if you wanted to get together again and maybe I could talk more about my project?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:41:00"},{"text":"oh, you cant stay with Johan anymore ?","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:42:15"},{"text":"I can but the airline put me up here at their expense","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:43:30"},{"text":"ok :) I have no plans for today to be honest. I just asked at couple facebook groups and couchsurfing about who wants to meet up","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:44:45"},{"text":"so we can meet anytime you want :)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:46:00"},{"text":"Haha cool. Tomorrow or later this week could work. I need to get some work done... And see the status of my flight.","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:47:15"},{"text":"Where are you staying","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:48:30"},{"text":"at rented room in Rodovre","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:49:45"},{"text":"15 minutes ride from the city center.","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:51:00"},{"text":"Mm ok. Like an Airbnb or?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:52:15"},{"text":"yeah, exactly :)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:53:30"},{"text":"Aahh okay. Yeah maybe we can get together at some point","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:54:45"},{"text":"Great. We can go wherever you want, I'm open for everything so, I'll wait for message from You, ok?","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:56:00"},{"text":"No yeah I'll reach out. I really want to here more about Poland","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:57:15"},{"text":"Ok :) so, I'll be waiting then","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 6:58:30"},{"text":"sigh. still not clear what my plan will be","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:06:00"},{"text":"I think I will be here at least until Tuesday…","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:07:15"},{"text":"well.. i spent all day here, havent gone anywhere","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:08:30"},{"text":"yeah I feel that...","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:09:45"},{"text":"now i am just hoping to meet someone .. i wrote on facebook groups, i am using couchsurfing hangouts... i am giving myself an hour. if i dont find anyone by 7 pm, I will go out alone...","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:11:00"},{"text":"I've definitely traveled to places and spent way to much time in my room haha","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:12:15"},{"text":"ok :) To be honest, sooner or later I would have to overcome my anxiety and go to a bar alone.","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:13:30"},{"text":"so why not today ?","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:14:45"},{"text":"Haha fair enough but bars aren't so fun alone on a Sunday I think.","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:16:00"},{"text":"I see…","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:17:15"},{"text":"well, I wrote to couple people on Grindr - downloaded it for the first time","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:18:30"},{"text":"nice tell me how it goes!","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:19:45"},{"text":"Ok. If I do find someone actually.","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:21:00"},{"text":"I’m sure you will although I should say, Grindr can be a hostile place (hence my whole project honestly) so dont be deterred if people dont answer or are rude...","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:22:15"},{"text":"Ok :) but I'll most likely go somewhere alone.","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:23:30"},{"text":":D that works too … :) feel free to write while you do it if you want digital company","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:24:45"},{"text":"Ok :)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:26:00"},{"text":"I got recommendations for one underground bar called Floss. I might go there","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:27:15"},{"text":"Oh okay - I haven't heard of it","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:28:30"},{"text":"https://www.visitcopenhagen.com/copenhagen/floss-gdk808921","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:29:45"},{"text":"oh wow absinthe haha","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:31:00"},{"text":"yeah :) only thing i dont like is that smoking is allowed... but apart from that it looks great","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:32:15"},{"text":"yeah that sucks","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:33:30"},{"text":"that's what I like about GAY... it's smoke fre","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:34:45"},{"text":"free","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:36:00"},{"text":"Going to a bar and sitting alone is way too scary for me. I can't imagine dancing alone :)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:37:15"},{"text":"hahah I actually did that the other weekend - I went to a gay bar in Aarhus by myself","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:38:30"},{"text":"it was really fun","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:39:45"},{"text":"but yeah I get why that would be scary.","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:41:00"},{"text":"oh.. i might have found someone","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:42:15"},{"text":"ooooo! haha","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:43:30"},{"text":"I met a transgender person on interpals. do you know that site ? he introduced to his gay friend. they havent been answering me for a while, so i kind of forgot about them, but now they answered","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:44:45"},{"text":"oh that's pretty cool. I dont know it but sounds cool","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:46:00"},{"text":"oh. they want to meet either monday or thursday :(","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:47:15"},{"text":"ahhh.","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:48:30"},{"text":"I see that you cant do much on Grindr without premium account :(","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:49:45"},{"text":"oh no that's not true... you can do almost everything... a premium account is unnecessary","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:51:00"},{"text":"i cant write to anyone outside of my area","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:52:15"},{"text":"i mean, on main page it shows me couple profiles and i cant write to anyone else","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:53:30"},{"text":"But your area is quite large no? Why do you want to write people far away?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:54:45"},{"text":"Send me a screenshot of your app","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:56:00"},{"text":"I go to map, set Rodovre as my locaton and i got this","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:57:15"},{"image":"images/message/grindr-screenshot1.png","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:58:30"},{"text":"see that locks ? when i click on them i got this","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 12:59:45"},{"image":"images/message/grindr-screenshot2.png","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:01:00"},{"text":"Oh no no","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:02:15"},{"text":"That's the explore tab","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:03:30"},{"text":"You don't need to set your location","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:04:45"},{"text":"Just use the main tab","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:06:00"},{"text":"The explore tab is new and yeah for premium membership but don't bother w it. It's if you want to see people say in Berlin for example","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:07:15"},{"text":"most profiles there are offline :/","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:08:30"},{"text":"and Johann showed up there :P","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:09:45"},{"text":"If they're online you can write them. It's fine. It will show that way even if they are barely offline. They'll likely get a notification on their phone or check the app","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:11:00"},{"text":"now i feel like its too late to try to find someone that way","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:12:15"},{"text":"i mean, i guess most people who want to go out tonight have plans already. i am getting ready and i will go out alone.","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:13:30"},{"text":"Okay. Whatever you want. But it's never too late man","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:14:45"},{"text":"i mean, too late today :) I dont want to end up sitting here all night. Time for me to prepare myself and go","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:16:00"},{"text":"Haha ok. But that's what I mean, it's not too late today. You could write someone for the first time on Grindr at midnight and meet them by 1am","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:17:15"},{"text":"my grindr will be still on.","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:18:30"},{"text":"Good","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:19:45"},{"text":"And You know, its better if i will be in the city centre already, and after one or 2 beers","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:21:00"},{"text":"mmm that's true","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:22:15"},{"text":"I was about to leave now :) but I'll turn on mobile data in a second","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:23:30"},{"text":"Haha whatever works for you :)","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:24:45"},{"text":"So I'm leaving. And I'm so fucking scared","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:26:00"},{"text":"You are? Tell me why","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:27:15"},{"text":"Perfect. Just perfect. My contact lens fell off","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:28:30"},{"text":"Can you get back to your Airbnb to replace it?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:29:45"},{"text":"Yeah...i have a spare one I have to go back","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:31:00"},{"text":"Okay - at least it's a solvable issue","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:32:15"},{"text":"Yeah, but I started to feel better. I was like - what can go wrong now? And well, this happened","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:33:30"},{"text":"Aww :( I'm sorry that sucks. Just try and get back to that energy","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:34:45"},{"text":"I'll try. I'll write you when I'm in the train. luckily I live close to the stop","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:36:00"},{"text":"<3 okay","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:37:15"},{"text":"So... It's just that I've never done any of these things","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:38:30"},{"text":"I've never been to gay bar. I never went to any bar alone. I dont have anyone to meet with in my hometown","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:39:45"},{"text":"Back in Poland I'm just spending all the time either at my work or at home- working out or trying to make any music","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:41:00"},{"text":"mmm I see - what about like going out with friends and stuff tho?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:42:15"},{"text":"In my hometown I have only one. I met her on Tuesday, after literaly 3 years of trying","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:43:30"},{"text":"oh wow that's hard. why is it so hard to make friends do you think?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:44:45"},{"text":"I don't know.. we'll talk about it tomorrow. I'm leaving train soon","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:46:00"},{"text":"oh okay","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:47:15"},{"text":"sounds good","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:48:30"},{"text":"good luck :) ill be here more or less, if you want to write","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:49:45"},{"text":"I'll meet with one man from couchsurfing, who agree d to meet me :)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:51:00"},{"text":"oh that's great :)","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/11/2018 13:52:15"},{"text":"hows your day","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 11:15:00"},{"text":"I get to stay in the hotel another day.... still dont have a flight","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 11:16:15"},{"text":"how long are you in CPH for?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 11:17:30"},{"text":"So we will meet today?","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 11:18:45"},{"text":":) yes after dinner","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 11:20:00"},{"text":"we could go to Oscar or something - it's a gay bar, but much more relaxed than GAY...","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 11:21:15"},{"text":"Ok :)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 11:22:30"},{"text":"So should I start getting ready now? :)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 14:04:00"},{"text":"I'm sitting down for dinner","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 14:05:15"},{"text":"It's taking forever for some reason","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 14:06:30"},{"text":"Ok. It's fine, we got all night after all :)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 14:07:45"},{"text":"True","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 14:09:00"},{"text":"So just let me know when you start getting ready","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 14:10:15"},{"text":"Ok","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 14:11:30"},{"text":"getting ready","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 14:12:45"},{"text":"could be at Oscar in 40 minutes or so, what would your arrival time be?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 14:14:00"},{"text":"i need to check where is it :P","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 14:15:15"},{"text":"Just put in Oscar Cafe and Bar","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 14:16:30"},{"text":"it's in the center","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 14:17:45"},{"text":"near where we went out before","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 14:19:00"},{"text":"Ok :)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 14:20:15"},{"text":"Ill head out now then","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 14:21:30"},{"text":"It really was so nice to grab a drink w you ... We have to talk more.","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 17:31:00"},{"text":"You have to tell me how meeting up with that guy goes tomorrow and let me know if you have any trouble getting home","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 17:32:15"},{"text":"Don't worry about it, it's fine :)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 17:33:30"},{"text":"As for going back home…","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 17:34:45"},{"image":"images/message/station-pic.jpg","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 17:36:00"},{"text":"I'm at the station already:p","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 17:37:15"},{"text":"Oh hooray :)","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 17:38:30"},{"text":"But I guess I'll just wander around a bit, try to take some pictures. But like I said, I'll be fine","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 17:39:45"},{"text":":)","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 17:41:00"},{"text":"Make it back ok I hope?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 19:19:00"},{"text":"Yeah, I was about to go to sleep now","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 19:20:15"},{"text":"Haha cool me too","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 19:21:30"},{"text":"Ok, so goodnight then :)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/12/2018 19:22:45"},{"text":"Hey. I am leaving to meet my friends soon, but i just wanted to check on you. any news about your flight ?","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/13/2018 6:49:00"},{"text":"Nothing yet. On the phone with them all day....","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/13/2018 11:49:00"},{"text":"Oh, that sucks :( at least you are not the only one who is waiting for the plane, right ?","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/13/2018 11:50:15"},{"text":"Yeah I guess","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/13/2018 11:51:30"},{"text":"I just came back from meeting with Mikkel, it ended up... crazy","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/13/2018 16:59:00"},{"text":"hahaha tell me everything","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/13/2018 17:00:15"},{"text":"i just met with him and the other person. Michael, female to male trans. They showed me couple gay bars, including Fair Ladies and Masken, gay sex shop Homoware and some other places. then Michael had to go back home, me and Mikkel went to the bar where he works, Kiss Kiss, and in the meantime he started to get close to me. like, really close. then at his bar we kissed and we went to his place","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/13/2018 17:01:30"},{"text":"and you can guess what happened there","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/13/2018 17:02:45"},{"text":"Hahaha what happened there??","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/13/2018 17:04:00"},{"image":"images/message/hickey.jpg","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/13/2018 17:05:15"},{"text":"among other things :P","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/13/2018 17:06:30"},{"text":"Dude thats awesome haha :) how do you feel","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/13/2018 17:07:45"},{"text":"feels good, you know, overcoming my fears. because i was so fucking scared of doing it","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/13/2018 17:09:00"},{"text":"Yeah? That amazing to hear","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/13/2018 17:10:15"},{"text":"Glad you had such a good experience","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/13/2018 17:11:30"},{"text":"yes, it was really great :) and he has vacation now, said we can meet again while i am still here","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/13/2018 17:12:45"},{"text":"That’s awesome!","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/13/2018 17:14:00"},{"text":"how are you doing","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/15/2018 10:56:00"},{"text":"I am finally in the US... almost home","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/15/2018 10:57:15"},{"text":"I was supposed to go to Christiana but I'm getting drunk with my host","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/15/2018 10:58:30"},{"text":"Oh wow haha","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/15/2018 10:59:45"},{"text":"Early to get drunk no?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/15/2018 11:01:00"},{"text":"A bit. But it was her choice. I was supposed to help her cleaning and then leave in the afternoon, but she just asked me for beers","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/15/2018 11:02:15"},{"text":"She's having vacation now, so she's staying at home. And she said that tomorrow she'll go party with Johan and they will take me with them","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/15/2018 11:03:30"},{"text":"Oh that sounds fun :) see how things come together!","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/15/2018 11:04:45"},{"text":"How’s it going","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/19/2018 13:41:00"},{"text":"Hey I've just arrived to Warsaw, now I just have to wait 3 hours for another flight","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/19/2018 13:42:15"},{"text":"Also im ill. I know I should have stayed at home on Saturday, but I ended up going to Bastard to play some games and then partying in Christiana","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/19/2018 13:43:30"},{"text":"Yeah?? How was Christiana","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/19/2018 13:44:45"},{"text":"I was already tired and ill when we were there. And there was so much smoke that my eyes started to hurt at one point. Otherwise it was great","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/19/2018 13:46:00"},{"text":"I wanted to go there at night anyway, so I'm happy I had a chance","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/19/2018 13:47:15"},{"text":"oh thats awesome","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/19/2018 13:48:30"},{"text":"Yeah,it was awesome. Sucks so much to come back","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/19/2018 13:49:45"},{"text":"told you you should think about trying to move there in May instead of a year from May .","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/19/2018 13:51:00"},{"text":"I will. I'll spend February and march here, then I'll start looking for any job in Denmark","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/19/2018 13:52:15"},{"text":"Once I got it I call my boss, call Solveig and that's it, I'm out of Poland","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/19/2018 13:53:30"},{"text":":) that's terrific !","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/19/2018 13:54:45"},{"text":"We'll start boarding the plane soon, ill write you later, ok?","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/19/2018 13:56:00"},{"text":"yeah ttyl","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/19/2018 13:57:15"},{"text":"I am curious to see the pictures! :)","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/20/2018 13:29:00"},{"text":"sorry man","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/22/2018 14:02:00"},{"text":"ive been so busy/stressed/sick","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/22/2018 14:03:15"},{"text":"ive had the photos done for awhile I just have been too preoccupied to send them lol","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/22/2018 14:04:30"},{"text":"here are 10 of my favorites","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/22/2018 14:05:45"},{"text":"what do you think","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/22/2018 14:07:00"},{"text":"*********************************SENDS PICS***************","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/22/2018 14:08:15"},{"text":"I am kind of scared to look at them to be honest","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/22/2018 14:09:30"},{"text":"Haha aww no :(","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/22/2018 14:10:45"},{"text":"I never thought I am attractive, thats all.","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/22/2018 14:12:00"},{"text":"But you are! You are too down on yourself! Need to be positive","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/22/2018 14:13:15"},{"text":"I guess I will be afraid to look at them until the weekend when i finally finish my wine","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/22/2018 14:14:30"},{"text":"Hahaha okay whatever you're comfortable with :)","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/22/2018 14:15:45"},{"text":"yeah :)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/22/2018 14:17:00"},{"text":"and.. You know i will set one of these as my profile picture, right ?","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/22/2018 14:18:15"},{"text":"Haha that's fine w me man","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/22/2018 14:19:30"},{"text":"ok :) I will credit You, so dont worry :)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/22/2018 14:20:45"},{"text":"Nick: hey how's it going?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 21:36:00"},{"text":"Hey :) So I am doing fine i guess. Except for atmosphere at work. which is absolutely terrible now. Yesterday I argued with 2 coworkers. About Denmark :P","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 23:27:00"},{"text":"oh shit that sucks. what about Denmark?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 23:28:15"},{"text":"Well, they have been trying to explain me that I dont know anything about Denmark and that the situation is not at all better than here in poland\nMatt: And that the fact that i was there for 10 or talked to expats from all over the world doesnt matter.","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 23:29:30"},{"text":":/ yeah? I guess they dont realize how much a change of life / openness in regards to LGBT issues could matter to someone, cause you aren't out to them also?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 12:44:00"},{"text":"I told them that one big difference is how they treat lgbt people.\nMatt: But I dont think they realized that by that I meant MYSELF.","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 12:45:15"},{"text":":/ yeah. how do you think they'd have reacted if they did realize that","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 12:46:30"},{"text":"I have no idea ... and I dont really care to be honest…","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 12:47:45"},{"text":"one girl is fine, but the other is so annoying. I had enough of her..","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 12:49:00"},{"text":"2 older warehouse workers are openly homophobic. So all i could expect from them is more hate","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 12:50:15"},{"text":"oh that's delightful.... *eyeroll*","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 12:51:30"},{"text":"one more month. when i come back from concert in Berlin I will start looking for a job","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 12:52:45"},{"text":"<3 good. I cant wait.","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 12:54:00"},{"text":"I hope we can connect again when im in Denmark in early June","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 12:55:15"},{"text":"maybe you'll have a job and an apartment and all that!","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 12:56:30"},{"text":"Yes, I hope so too :/","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 12:57:45"},{"text":"There seem to be a lot of work in Copenhagen. so i do have a chance to find something fast","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 12:59:00"},{"text":"<3 ahh that'd be so cool! ill hold my thumbs for you","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 13:00:15"},{"text":"Thank You so much :)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 13:01:30"},{"text":"<3","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 13:02:45"},{"text":"And I am happy you wrote me yesterday. You know, my day got worse after that argument..","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 13:04:00"},{"text":":/ yeah i can understand why. I just would try and not let it get to you. You have a goal, and something to be excited about. Don’t let them hold you back.","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 13:05:15"},{"text":"I know :/ and I dont care about them anymorte","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 13:06:30"},{"text":"I just focus on thinking that I will meet my friends in 3 weeks. and also on selling my stuff :P","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 13:07:45"},{"text":"<3 sounds like a good plan","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 13:09:00"},{"text":"still more a dream than a real plan :P","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 13:10:15"},{"text":"hahaha plans are only dreams made real :)","isUser":false,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 13:11:30"},{"text":"yeah, I guess You are right :)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"02/26/2018 13:12:45"}]},{"order":1,"details":{"name":"Slut","pic":{"detail":"images/profile/profile-j-001_detail.jpg","thumb":"images/profile/profile-j-001_thumbnail.jpg"}},"messages":[{"text":"Hi","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 2:14:00"},{"text":"Thanks for the tap","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 2:16:45"},{"text":"Hey ^^","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 2:19:30"},{"text":"You looked interesting so welcome! *shrug emoji*","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 2:22:15"},{"text":"Haha how’s your night","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 2:25:00"},{"text":"It’s been splendid since the alcohol kicked in! *sweating happy emoji*","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 2:27:45"},{"text":"Haha I understand that!","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 2:30:30"},{"text":"I’m walking home from g bar","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 2:33:15"},{"text":"I could use a burger *shrug emoji*","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 3:15:00"},{"text":"Hahaha omg that would have been so nice lol","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 14:34:00"},{"text":"You got maybe sth else *winky face*","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 15:23:00"},{"text":"Haha yeah?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 15:42:00"},{"text":"Food is just the best *heart eyes emoji*","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 16:04:00"},{"text":"Who are you btw?","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 16:06:00"},{"text":"??","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 18:17:00"},{"text":"What do you mean who am I ?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 18:18:00"},{"text":"Well like where you from, what brings you here etc *grin emoji*","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 18:20:45"},{"text":"Ahh","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 18:23:30"},{"text":"I’m from the US. I study at a photography school here in Aarhus","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 18:26:15"},{"text":"Creative and a foreigner","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 18:29:00"},{"text":"That is hot stuff *okay emoji*","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 18:31:45"},{"text":"Hahaha thanks man","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 18:34:30"},{"text":"Do you have other pictures","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 18:37:15"},{"text":"Yes I do *smiley face*","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 18:40:00"},{"text":"What about you?","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 18:42:45"},{"text":"*exchange pictures*","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 18:45:30"},{"text":"Hahaha so how’s Grindr treating you today","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 21:17:00"},{"text":"Well just horny boys and dickpics","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 21:19:45"},{"text":"Hahah yeah? I haven’t gotten any dick pics yet","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 21:22:30"},{"text":"Wish guy’s put bit more effort on presentation of their beef! Maybe I just atrract those types *cry emoji*","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 21:25:15"},{"text":"One of the daddy types asked if I did escort? *shrug emoji* WTF??","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 21:28:00"},{"image":"images/message/Screenshot_20180129-234423.png","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 21:30:45"},{"text":"Wow haha","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 21:33:30"},{"text":"So what do you look for here","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 21:36:15"},{"text":"I am on here looking for folks for my project mainly. And friends of course.","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 21:39:00"},{"text":"What is the project about?","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 21:41:45"},{"text":"It’s a bit hard to explain concisely but it’s about mental health, Grindr, loneliness, hook up culture, people’s experiences navigating the gay dating world. Sometimes we do interviews, portraits, all sorts of stuff. It’s pretty open ended right now","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 21:44:30"},{"text":"I just had this idea of shooting Polaroids and having people write on the photo what insecurity they have about their naked body","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 21:47:15"},{"text":"So what do you think","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 21:50:00"},{"text":"Sounds interesting :) All good reflections","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 21:52:45"},{"text":"Would you want to meet sometime to talk more about it","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 21:55:30"},{"text":"Would love to :)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 22:41:00"},{"text":"I live in CPH though so just here sometimes for short visits","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 22:43:45"},{"text":"Yeah, how long are you in town now?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 22:46:30"},{"text":"I’m coming to Copenhagen before my flight to the US on the 11th.. Probably go down on the 9th or 10th","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 22:49:15"},{"text":"Ok ^^ I leave tomorrow","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 22:52:00"},{"text":"Oh damn so soon haha","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 22:54:45"},{"text":"We’ll have to connect in Copenhagen","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 22:57:30"},{"text":"Sounds like a plan *angel emoji*","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/28/18 23:00:15"},{"text":"Are you on WhatsApp","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/28/18 23:17:00"},{"text":"Yeah","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/29/18 0:15:00"},{"text":"I’m +16036863733","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/29/18 0:17:45"},{"text":"My name’s Nick","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/29/18 0:20:30"},{"text":"Johann","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/29/18 0:23:15"},{"text":"Okay cool, Text me!","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/29/18 0:26:00"},{"text":"Hey","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/29/18 0:40:00"},{"text":"Johann?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/29/18 0:40:00"},{"text":"Jóhann","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/29/18 0:40:00"},{"text":"Yeah","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/29/18 0:40:00"},{"text":"Haha sorry didn't put the accent lol","isUser":false,"timestamp":"1/29/18 0:41:00"},{"text":"Is no problem ^^","isUser":true,"timestamp":"1/29/18 0:42:00"},{"text":"hey so im thinking of going to Amigo this weekend, see what it's like, maybe see if i can meet anyone for my project.. have you ever been or?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/3/18 14:17:00"},{"text":"Many times, it is a hilariously sad place","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/3/18 14:19:45"},{"text":"hahaha that makes me want to go even more - what do you mean by that?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/3/18 14:22:30"},{"text":"Nothing compared to those gay bath house services bigger cities offer but you can surely find some good material there for your project","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/3/18 14:25:15"},{"text":"hahahah i see - in what way did you mean it's hilariously sad? that's quite the description lol","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/3/18 14:28:00"},{"text":"It is just a forum for hypocrisy and primarily behavioral extinct that all men and specially gay men have! Closeted married dads fucking young confused twinks younger then their own children. Chem sex, quick release of of deprived sexual desires caused of religious or cultural backgrounds! Exchange of body fluids in the holy glow of horniness and the unconscious urges to release personal power and jizz! It is a awesome place 🍆💦💦💦","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/3/18 14:30:45"},{"text":"Though will never beat a cocaine party I once went to at Nørrebro and mostly sad because it will never be the same as Berlin with their insane gay scene!","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/3/18 14:33:30"},{"text":"hahahah omg! what a reply","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/3/18 14:36:15"},{"text":"so is it popular?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/3/18 14:39:00"},{"text":"Define popular? 😂 Is it a place you can wash and fuck? Then yes","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/3/18 14:41:45"},{"text":"I don’t have the excel file with all the statistics ;)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/3/18 14:44:30"},{"text":"Oh you don't?? ;) Bummer haha","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/3/18 14:47:15"},{"text":"So how are you today in general? Feeling better?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 18:38:00"},{"text":"Well I had this young twink over for a massage this morning, was fun though he was not as entertaining as I had hoped! Otherwise not much that happenede, I survived the evening shift!","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 18:40:45"},{"text":"Haha tell me more about that?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 18:43:30"},{"text":"Watching this new serie on Netflix called Damnation! 😍 Getting pretty hooked on it","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 18:46:15"},{"text":"About my evening shift? 🤫","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 18:49:00"},{"text":"No the twink lol","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 18:51:45"},{"text":"The date, how it was","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 18:54:30"},{"text":"Well wasn’t really a date 🤷🏼♂ I gave him a massage and fucked him 😂","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 18:57:15"},{"text":"No romance there 😏","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:00:00"},{"text":"Hahaha wow. But t meant like, how'd you meet... Did you talk for a long time beforehand or? Is that your thing lol? Massage and fuck?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:02:45"},{"text":"Maybe chatted with him for 4-6 weeks, he wanted a massage and I wanted ass. Felt like fair trade to me ;)","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:05:30"},{"text":"Haha i see. 4-6 weeks is quite awhile for Grindr I'd say","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:08:15"},{"text":"How old was he","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:11:00"},{"text":"No I got his number, I don’t text so much on Grindr 😁😛🤣 I only log online if I’m bored or to do they daily blocking of 10 guy’s a day thing 😁","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:13:45"},{"text":"Hahah why do you have to block guys?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:16:30"},{"text":"I never block people","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:19:15"},{"text":"How old was he?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:22:00"},{"text":"I block 10 every day 😁","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:24:45"},{"text":"Hahah why tho","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:27:30"},{"text":"Cause they are old, annoying or boring me...","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:30:15"},{"text":"What don't you like about old? Do you have an age limit?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:33:00"},{"text":"He was 18, blond, athletic","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:35:45"},{"text":"How do they annoy you","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:38:30"},{"text":"Oh wow 18. I can nervous even talking to anyone under 21 for some reason haha","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:41:15"},{"text":"Sounds pretty twink-y haha","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:44:00"},{"text":"Ugly dickpics, stupidity... there can be so many reasons 🤷🏼♂","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:46:45"},{"text":"I really need to stop scoring twinks but they are just so easy","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:49:30"},{"text":"Oh?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:52:15"},{"text":"Like McDonalds, fast, cheap and easy 😉","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:55:00"},{"text":"Hahah how often are you fucking these guys?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 19:57:45"},{"text":"What do you like about the quick hook ups?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:00:30"},{"text":"Usually just once, I don’t like recycling","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:03:15"},{"text":"Why don't you like recycling?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:06:00"},{"text":"Fuck the same guy multiple times?","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:08:45"},{"text":"Yes","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:11:30"},{"text":"Well actually I fucked 3 the same night","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:14:15"},{"text":"How’d that happen","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:17:00"},{"text":"Well I matched this 21 y/o on Tinder who claimed to be straight but wanted to be a sissy boy. Wanted to try a real cock instead of his dildo 🤷🏼♂ so I thought well I have a big dick you are most welcome to ride it","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:19:45"},{"text":"Dirty talked with him all evening, was not sure if he was for real and was getting bit horny so called my ex bf and fucked him","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:22:30"},{"text":"Then this Tinder guy wrote that hecwas coming so got rid of my ex before he arrived","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:25:15"},{"text":"Then played with him for 2 hours and was getting tired but was online Grindr and a Swedish guy was online that I had been chatting with. He was bit drunk and heading home from town. Asked if he should come and I just said yes! 😂","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:28:00"},{"text":"Was a very exhausting night 😏","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:30:45"},{"text":"Hahah wow","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:33:30"},{"text":"So how often do you do this kind of thing, hooking up like that?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:36:15"},{"text":"2-3 a week maybe","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:39:00"},{"text":"Have you always had a sex drive like what you have now","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:41:45"},{"text":"I get easily horny but just as easily not","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:44:30"},{"text":"Guess higher sexdrive then many but more often I rather wank then fuck a guy","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:47:15"},{"text":"Yeah why's that?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:50:00"},{"text":"Get so tired of listening to young twinks and their hunger for attention and recognition","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:52:45"},{"text":"They express all that during a ten minute fuck?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:55:30"},{"text":"No during the hunt","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 20:58:15"},{"text":"You have to invest time in the hunt","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 21:01:00"},{"text":"The fuck itself is the easiest part 😉","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 21:03:45"},{"text":"It's a hunt eh?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 21:06:30"},{"text":"Do the guys feel blown after you don't write them anymore","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 21:09:15"},{"text":"Yeah like fishing, catch n release!","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 21:12:00"},{"text":"Possibly 😏","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 21:14:45"},{"text":"Haha I see.","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 21:17:30"},{"text":"Why do you think you date or whatever you call it, this way?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 21:20:15"},{"text":"Why not slow down, have a bf for the long term?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 21:23:00"},{"text":"It’s not dating, just entertainment","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 21:25:45"},{"text":"Ahh. Do you not want to date right now then?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/4/18 21:28:30"},{"text":"Not really","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 21:31:15"},{"text":"Can not see any purpose with a bf 🤷🏼♂","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 21:34:00"},{"text":"Food and friends gives a meaning on the other hand 😄","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/4/18 21:36:45"},{"text":"What's the purpose of the hook ups do you think?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/5/18 9:00:00"},{"text":"Satisfaction and pleasing the primal brain and medulla with the hormonal soup of oxytocin and dopamine? 🤷🏼♂😂","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/5/18 14:33:00"},{"text":"Is a innated behavior imprinted to our genes for millions of years! Hard to change that 😉 Just spreading my seeds as nature created men to do 🤓 Pure science 🤪","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/5/18 14:35:00"},{"text":"Haha oh I see","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/5/18 14:36:00"},{"text":"But what if you couldn't hook up with guys anymore, would that be ok","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/5/18 14:36:00"},{"text":"Then there is death or the hand","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/5/18 14:39:00"},{"text":"Do you have sex a lot do you think","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/5/18 14:40:00"},{"text":"No I do it efficiently enough, not too much and not too little 😁 why let great skills go to waste!","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/5/18 14:45:00"},{"text":"I think the Gay scene is like cancer","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/5/18 15:09:00"},{"text":"What do you mean by that?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/5/18 15:10:00"},{"text":"I know too much, who has been fucking, cheating, drug addicts... all the gossip and filth","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/5/18 15:10:00"},{"text":"Though the surface is all shiny and perfect 🤫","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/5/18 15:10:00"},{"text":"Easier with young twinks, they are new","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/5/18 15:11:00"},{"text":"Not as used as the olders","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/5/18 15:11:00"},{"text":"I see","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/5/18 15:11:00"},{"text":"😂","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/5/18 15:37:00"},{"text":"I get so depressed listening to myself","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/5/18 15:37:00"},{"text":"Going out for a drink","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/5/18 15:37:00"},{"text":"Now?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/5/18 15:38:00"},{"text":"Yeah and some shopping","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/5/18 15:40:00"},{"text":"Sounds nice","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/5/18 15:42:00"},{"text":"So I am kinda curious to hear more about your approach to relationships… you said you hook up w a lot of younger guys...","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 12:17:00"},{"text":"Yeah maybe… hahah","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 12:19:45"},{"text":"Why is that do you think?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 12:22:30"},{"text":"I don’t have a fetish that they have to be young, but I guess it just makes me feel younger... because if I meet a guy that’s my age, 40, I just think, what the fuck happened to you","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 12:25:15"},{"text":"Do you say that about yourself sometimes?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 12:28:00"},{"text":"Yeah a lot of the time...","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 12:30:45"},{"text":"What does that mean, then, wtf happened to you?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 12:33:30"},{"text":"Hmm.... it’s multiple layers... I have like ummm... well if I look at my younger self... If I was looking at my younger self… My older self wouldn’t actually be attracted to younger me, I think...","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 12:36:15"},{"text":"Your now self, wouldn’t be attracted to your then self, you mean?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 12:39:00"},{"text":"Yeah, I mean I’ve become that person that I wouldn’t have liked as my younger self is what I’m saying.. it’s like when guys ask you how many guys have you slept with... and I’m like you mean this week, this month, this year....","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 12:41:45"},{"text":"cause i would have once made fun of older guys when I was younger thinking they were so sleazy because they’ve probably slept with 500+ guys but at this point I probably have also... and of course only 10 are memorable. It’s like McDonalds... you have something to fulfill... but the day after you don’t really have any memory... it doesn’t mean anything for you...","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 12:44:30"},{"text":"It’s so meaningless. It’s just a itch. And you scratch it. And then it’s the next day, next moment. It doesn’t have any deeper meaning, or purpose, I guess.","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 12:47:15"},{"text":"Does that freak you out?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 12:50:00"},{"text":"No.... That’s how men are.... even though they are gay or sixty years old... maybe that’s a bitter thing to say, but deep down... at a basic level.. We’re all the same","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 12:52:45"},{"text":"What do you mean by that?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 12:55:30"},{"text":"Just that men are basic.","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 12:58:15"},{"text":"What does that mean","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:01:00"},{"text":"Predictable","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:03:45"},{"text":"Are you predictable","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:06:30"},{"text":"Probably if you know me","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:09:15"},{"text":"Does that bother you?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:12:00"},{"text":"Yes","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:14:45"},{"text":"Why?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:17:30"},{"text":"Cause it’s always been my thing, I don’t want people to understand me... I don’t like to be analyzed or put in a box....","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:20:15"},{"text":"Do you worry that I’m putting you in a box?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:23:00"},{"text":"No, I only feed you with information that I feel appropriate haha","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:25:45"},{"text":"I guess that’s fine.","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:28:30"},{"text":"You do get a lot of my thoughts","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:31:15"},{"text":"Does that mean that I understand them, or that I’m lucky enough to receive them?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:34:00"},{"text":"I mean I probably tell you a lot more than I would tell many others..","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:36:45"},{"text":"Why is that?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:39:30"},{"text":"Hmmm... I’ve always been a storyteller ...","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:42:15"},{"text":"So why are you telling me more than others, if you’re a storyteller...","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:45:00"},{"text":"Well... everyone deserves a different story ... I’m just giving you a story I feel like telling you","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:47:45"},{"text":"Your showing me what you want to show me","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:50:30"},{"text":"Yeah.... it’s about liking people ... or... how I handed you the key to my apartment and let you crash here .... I wouldn’t just hand a key to anyone... in fact you’re probably staying here longer than many people I know... I like the random nature of that...","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:53:15"},{"text":"Yeah I appreciate you letting me stay here...","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:56:00"},{"text":"Yeah it’s intriguing. It makes me curious","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 13:58:45"},{"text":"Do you feel like life’s a game for you?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:01:30"},{"text":"Yeah. Well it’s not a game, more like play","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:04:15"},{"text":"Like theater?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:07:00"},{"text":"Yeah.","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:09:45"},{"text":"What does that mean?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:12:30"},{"text":"Well.... you always put on a show, a face, a theme... a behavior is something that you select…","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:15:15"},{"text":"Cause you have expectations... or ... how you want things to be","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:18:00"},{"text":"How you want your life to be?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:20:45"},{"text":"Not necessarily... just the moment... it’s like having uhhh wearing a sweater or a jacket, it’s a choice... how do you want to present yourself...","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:23:30"},{"text":"Okay I understand… so going with metaphor what happens when the curtains close, what goes on backstage...","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:26:15"},{"text":"Backstage.... family... yeah... I actually... That’s only family.. Who knows...","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:29:00"},{"text":"What do you mean","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:31:45"},{"text":"Nobody knows me. In that way...","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:34:30"},{"text":"No one knows your backstage life..","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:37:15"},{"text":"Only my family know it... yeah... cause you only show what you want to show... for me it’s about weakness... people should not know my weaknesses because that makes you vulnerable .... I always have this... people tell me you’re always smiling you’re always happy","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:40:00"},{"text":"But you’re not like that truly","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:42:45"},{"text":"No","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:45:30"},{"text":"What are you truly like","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:48:15"},{"text":"A bitch. *laughs* No... I’m like... sensitive...","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:51:00"},{"text":"Do you ever wish you had one person who you wouldn’t have to perform with so to speak","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:53:45"},{"text":"No..","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:56:30"},{"text":"You get what I’m getting at, though?","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 14:59:15"},{"text":"Yeah... no because that’s weakness... because you are saying you can’t be whole unless you have someone, I don’t like that thought... I like to be me...","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 15:02:00"},{"text":"So you wouldn’t say you’re lonely then","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 15:04:45"},{"text":"Loneliness is the same as boredom","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 15:07:30"},{"text":"What does that mean","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 15:10:15"},{"text":"That it’s just part of the spectrum... if you can’t feel loneliness or boredom how can you feel happiness…","isUser":false,"timestamp":"2/10/18 15:13:00"},{"text":"People on grindr always ask what are you searching for, and I’m like I don’t need to be searching for anything, I can enjoy having a hook up without feeling like I need to have it... if that makes sense.. cause nothing is more stupid then when people say oh I need a boyfriend, I need a relationship, because you can just be a whole being yourself, ... I don’t need someone to fill my gaps, my emptiness,","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 15:15:45"},{"text":"I’m not empty being single.","isUser":true,"timestamp":"2/10/18 15:18:30"}]}] |